你有读过John Gray的一本书吗？"Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus".到今天，还是那么的畅销。你知道为什么吗？
我的总结就是因为...
男人心，高深莫测
女人心，海底捞针
February 20, 2008
February 19, 2008
May the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be pleasing to you, O Lord, my rock and my redeemer.
诗篇19（现代中文译本）
諸天宣佈上帝的榮耀；穹蒼傳揚他的作為。
日日述說，夜夜傳播；
無言無語，無音無響。
然而，它們的音訊傳遍人間；它們的言語遠達天涯。上帝在天空為太陽安設帳幕；
太陽像新郎走出洞房，像勇士歡欣奔路。
它從天的這一邊出來，繞到天的那一邊；它的熱量普及萬物。
上主的法律完備，使人的生命更新；上主的命令可靠，使愚蠢人得智慧。
上主的法則公正，使順從的人喜樂；上主的訓誨透徹，使人的心眼明亮。
上主的規範純真，永遠留存；上主的判斷準確，始終公道。
它們比金子可貴，勝過最精純的金子；它們比蜂蜜甘甜，勝過最純淨的蜂蜜。
這一切使你的僕人深受警惕；僕人謹守，獲益無窮。
誰能看見自己的過錯呢？求你寬恕我無意的過失。
求你使我不至於故意犯罪，不容許罪惡支配我。這樣，我就能成為無可指責的人，免犯悖逆重罪。
上主─我的避難所，我的救贖者啊，願我的言語，我的心思都蒙你悅納！
Psalm 19 (New Living Translations)
The heavens proclaim the glory of God.
The skies display his craftsmanship.
Day after day they continue to speak;
night after night they make him known.
They speak without a sound or word;
their voice is never heard.*
Yet their message has gone throughout the earth,
and their words to all the world.
God has made a home in the heavens for the sun.
It bursts forth like a radiant bridegroom after his wedding.
It rejoices like a great athlete eager to run the race.
The sun rises at one end of the heavens
and follows its course to the other end.
Nothing can hide from its heat.
The instructions of the LORD are perfect,
reviving the soul.
The decrees of the LORD are trustworthy,
making wise the simple.
The commandments of the LORD are right,
bringing joy to the heart.
The commands of the LORD are clear,
giving insight for living.
Reverence for the LORD is pure,
lasting forever.
The laws of the LORD are true;
each one is fair.
They are more desirable than gold,
even the finest gold.
They are sweeter than honey,
even honey dripping from the comb.
They are a warning to your servant,
a great reward for those who obey them.
How can I know all the sins lurking in my heart?
Cleanse me from these hidden faults.
Keep your servant from deliberate sins!
Don't let them control me.
Then I will be free of guilt
and innocent of great sin.
May the words of my mouth
and the meditation of my heart
be pleasing to you,
O LORD, my rock and my redeemer.
諸天宣佈上帝的榮耀；穹蒼傳揚他的作為。
日日述說，夜夜傳播；
無言無語，無音無響。
然而，它們的音訊傳遍人間；它們的言語遠達天涯。上帝在天空為太陽安設帳幕；
太陽像新郎走出洞房，像勇士歡欣奔路。
它從天的這一邊出來，繞到天的那一邊；它的熱量普及萬物。
上主的法律完備，使人的生命更新；上主的命令可靠，使愚蠢人得智慧。
上主的法則公正，使順從的人喜樂；上主的訓誨透徹，使人的心眼明亮。
上主的規範純真，永遠留存；上主的判斷準確，始終公道。
它們比金子可貴，勝過最精純的金子；它們比蜂蜜甘甜，勝過最純淨的蜂蜜。
這一切使你的僕人深受警惕；僕人謹守，獲益無窮。
誰能看見自己的過錯呢？求你寬恕我無意的過失。
求你使我不至於故意犯罪，不容許罪惡支配我。這樣，我就能成為無可指責的人，免犯悖逆重罪。
上主─我的避難所，我的救贖者啊，願我的言語，我的心思都蒙你悅納！
Psalm 19 (New Living Translations)
The heavens proclaim the glory of God.
The skies display his craftsmanship.
Day after day they continue to speak;
night after night they make him known.
They speak without a sound or word;
their voice is never heard.*
Yet their message has gone throughout the earth,
and their words to all the world.
God has made a home in the heavens for the sun.
It bursts forth like a radiant bridegroom after his wedding.
It rejoices like a great athlete eager to run the race.
The sun rises at one end of the heavens
and follows its course to the other end.
Nothing can hide from its heat.
The instructions of the LORD are perfect,
reviving the soul.
The decrees of the LORD are trustworthy,
making wise the simple.
The commandments of the LORD are right,
bringing joy to the heart.
The commands of the LORD are clear,
giving insight for living.
Reverence for the LORD is pure,
lasting forever.
The laws of the LORD are true;
each one is fair.
They are more desirable than gold,
even the finest gold.
They are sweeter than honey,
even honey dripping from the comb.
They are a warning to your servant,
a great reward for those who obey them.
How can I know all the sins lurking in my heart?
Cleanse me from these hidden faults.
Keep your servant from deliberate sins!
Don't let them control me.
Then I will be free of guilt
and innocent of great sin.
May the words of my mouth
and the meditation of my heart
be pleasing to you,
O LORD, my rock and my redeemer.
February 16, 2008
Proverbs 16
I'm reading today's proverbs, the more I read, the more I wish to leave some notes on my blog! :p And tat's why I'm here now..
16: 4 The Lord has made everything for his own purposes, even the wicked for punishment.
Since the Lord has His own purposes on everything, shall we ask Him the right questions: What do you want me to learn in this situation? instead of asking "Why does this happen?"
16: 24 Kind words are like honey---sweet to the soul and healthy for the body.
If you cannot speak kind words, then don't say anything lor.. there is a chinese saying "你唔出聲，冇人會話你啞嘎！"
16:44 We may throw the dice, but the Lord determines how they fall.
This reminds me when we like to play card games, such as Phase 10 (a game that I introduced to my friends after a trip to overseas). We are used to say "aiyar.. no luck leh..." or "aduii.. he got all the lucks! tat's why he keep getting the joker cards!!!"
In fact, what is luck? Is there such thing as luck? From this verse 44, it says "but the Lord determines how they fall." God knows everything! He knew who will be the winner and the loser of the game! Why? Because He is the Lord Almighty and He is greater, not controlled by time and history! Can you imagine how great God is? He is greater than time. He knows our past, our current, and our future! Because He is beyond everything... So, why do we still play card games? Why do we still live in this world since He knew everything and He determines everything? I guess that's the fun of life. If we human know everything, then our life have no fun! If we knew that our life will be a rich life, will we still depend on Him and ask His guidance? If we knew that our life will be a difficult life, will we keep on going? It is so amazing!
"You will show me the way of life, granting me the joy of your presence and the pleasures of living with you forever." (Psalm 16:11)
16: 4 The Lord has made everything for his own purposes, even the wicked for punishment.
Since the Lord has His own purposes on everything, shall we ask Him the right questions: What do you want me to learn in this situation? instead of asking "Why does this happen?"
16: 24 Kind words are like honey---sweet to the soul and healthy for the body.
If you cannot speak kind words, then don't say anything lor.. there is a chinese saying "你唔出聲，冇人會話你啞嘎！"
16:44 We may throw the dice, but the Lord determines how they fall.
This reminds me when we like to play card games, such as Phase 10 (a game that I introduced to my friends after a trip to overseas). We are used to say "aiyar.. no luck leh..." or "aduii.. he got all the lucks! tat's why he keep getting the joker cards!!!"
In fact, what is luck? Is there such thing as luck? From this verse 44, it says "but the Lord determines how they fall." God knows everything! He knew who will be the winner and the loser of the game! Why? Because He is the Lord Almighty and He is greater, not controlled by time and history! Can you imagine how great God is? He is greater than time. He knows our past, our current, and our future! Because He is beyond everything... So, why do we still play card games? Why do we still live in this world since He knew everything and He determines everything? I guess that's the fun of life. If we human know everything, then our life have no fun! If we knew that our life will be a rich life, will we still depend on Him and ask His guidance? If we knew that our life will be a difficult life, will we keep on going? It is so amazing!
"You will show me the way of life, granting me the joy of your presence and the pleasures of living with you forever." (Psalm 16:11)
February 15, 2008
诗篇：心灵点滴皆音符~《欢喜读旧约》杨腓力
a book review on "The Bible Jesus Read" by Philip Yancey
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诗篇是不同的人——农夫、国王、专业的音乐家、业余好手，一是题写的个人祷词，情绪起伏极大... 诗篇则是“平凡人”苦苦想调和信心与经验的例子。作者的口气或控诉、或自义、或惊慌、或小气。
Page 129
诗篇位居圣经篇幅的正中央，藉着个人记载属灵生命如何发挥作用，全盘罗列了与神的生命是如何的光景。我读诗篇，主要不像是求知的学生，而是与作者同为天路客，也想得到那种亲密的神人关系...圣经没有一卷书，像诗篇一样披露所谓真心真意，灵魂饥渴、心无旁骛的神人关系，究竟是什么样的关系。
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有些诗篇可以称作“对身愤怒”、“被神出卖”、“被神遗弃”、或是“对神绝望”...有些属灵长辈会说：“忍耐啊；保持笑容；受苦是你更坚强。”十篇作者可不这么说。他们并不将怒气合理化，束之高阁，或是给些抽象的劝告/他们乃是生动、大声地、表达自己的情感，主要是对神倾吐心中的感受。
Page 126
诗篇是不同的人——农夫、国王、专业的音乐家、业余好手，一是题写的个人祷词，情绪起伏极大... 诗篇则是“平凡人”苦苦想调和信心与经验的例子。作者的口气或控诉、或自义、或惊慌、或小气。
Page 129
诗篇位居圣经篇幅的正中央，藉着个人记载属灵生命如何发挥作用，全盘罗列了与神的生命是如何的光景。我读诗篇，主要不像是求知的学生，而是与作者同为天路客，也想得到那种亲密的神人关系...圣经没有一卷书，像诗篇一样披露所谓真心真意，灵魂饥渴、心无旁骛的神人关系，究竟是什么样的关系。
Page 136
有些诗篇可以称作“对身愤怒”、“被神出卖”、“被神遗弃”、或是“对神绝望”...有些属灵长辈会说：“忍耐啊；保持笑容；受苦是你更坚强。”十篇作者可不这么说。他们并不将怒气合理化，束之高阁，或是给些抽象的劝告/他们乃是生动、大声地、表达自己的情感，主要是对神倾吐心中的感受。
EMPTY CHAIR
A man's daughter had asked the local pastor to come and pray with her father. When the pastor arrived, he found the man lying in bed with his head propped up on two pillows and an empty chair beside his bed.
The pastor assumed that the old fellow had been informed of his visit. I guess you were expecting me," he said."No, who are you?" "I'm the new associate pastor at your local church," the pastor replied. "When I saw the empty chair, I figured you knew that I was going to show up." "Oh yeah, the chair," said the bedridden man.
"Would you mind closing the door?" Puzzled, the pastor shut the door.
"I've never told anyone this, not even my daughter," said the man.
"But all of my life I have never known how to pray. At church I used to hear the pastor talk about prayer, but it went right over my head. I abandoned any attempt at prayer," the old man continued, "until one day about four years ago my best friend said to me, 'Joe, prayer is just a simple matter of having a conversation with Jesus. Here's what I suggest. Sit down on a chair, place an empty chair in front of you, and in faith see Jesus on the chair. It's not spooky because he promised, 'I'll be with you always.' Then just speak to him and listen in the same way you're doing with me right now."
"So, I tried it and I've liked it so much that I do it a couple of hours every day. I'm careful, though. If my daughter saw me talking to an empty chair, she'd either have a nervous breakdown or send me off to the funny farm."
The pastor was deeply moved by the story and encouraged the old guy to continue on the journey.Then he prayed with him, and returned to the church.
Two nights later the daughter called to tell the pastor that her daddy had died that afternoon.
"Did he seem to die in peace?" he asked. "Yes,when I left the house around two o'clock, he called me over to his bedside,told me one of his corny jokes, and kissed me on the cheek. When I got back from the store an hour later, I found him dead. But, there was something strange.In fact, beyond strange--kinda weird.Apparently, just before Daddy died, he leaned over and rested his head on a chair beside the bed.
(Excerpt from http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Lake/3888/Prayerintroduction1.html)
The pastor assumed that the old fellow had been informed of his visit. I guess you were expecting me," he said."No, who are you?" "I'm the new associate pastor at your local church," the pastor replied. "When I saw the empty chair, I figured you knew that I was going to show up." "Oh yeah, the chair," said the bedridden man.
"Would you mind closing the door?" Puzzled, the pastor shut the door.
"I've never told anyone this, not even my daughter," said the man.
"But all of my life I have never known how to pray. At church I used to hear the pastor talk about prayer, but it went right over my head. I abandoned any attempt at prayer," the old man continued, "until one day about four years ago my best friend said to me, 'Joe, prayer is just a simple matter of having a conversation with Jesus. Here's what I suggest. Sit down on a chair, place an empty chair in front of you, and in faith see Jesus on the chair. It's not spooky because he promised, 'I'll be with you always.' Then just speak to him and listen in the same way you're doing with me right now."
"So, I tried it and I've liked it so much that I do it a couple of hours every day. I'm careful, though. If my daughter saw me talking to an empty chair, she'd either have a nervous breakdown or send me off to the funny farm."
The pastor was deeply moved by the story and encouraged the old guy to continue on the journey.Then he prayed with him, and returned to the church.
Two nights later the daughter called to tell the pastor that her daddy had died that afternoon.
"Did he seem to die in peace?" he asked. "Yes,when I left the house around two o'clock, he called me over to his bedside,told me one of his corny jokes, and kissed me on the cheek. When I got back from the store an hour later, I found him dead. But, there was something strange.In fact, beyond strange--kinda weird.Apparently, just before Daddy died, he leaned over and rested his head on a chair beside the bed.
(Excerpt from http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Lake/3888/Prayerintroduction1.html)
EMPTY CHAIR
A man's daughter had asked the local pastor to come and pray with her father. When the pastor arrived, he found the man lying in bed with his head propped up on two pillows and an empty chair beside his bed.
The pastor assumed that the old fellow had been informed of his visit. I guess you were expecting me," he said."No, who are you?" "I'm the new associate pastor at your local church," the pastor replied. "When I saw the empty chair, I figured you knew that I was going to show up." "Oh yeah, the chair," said the bedridden man.
"Would you mind closing the door?" Puzzled, the pastor shut the door.
"I've never told anyone this, not even my daughter," said the man.
"But all of my life I have never known how to pray. At church I used to hear the pastor talk about prayer, but it went right over my head. I abandoned any attempt at prayer," the old man continued, "until one day about four years ago my best friend said to me, 'Joe, prayer is just a simple matter of having a conversation with Jesus. Here's what I suggest. Sit down on a chair, place an empty chair in front of you, and in faith see Jesus on the chair. It's not spooky because he promised, 'I'll be with you always.' Then just speak to him and listen in the same way you're doing with me right now."
"So, I tried it and I've liked it so much that I do it a couple of hours every day. I'm careful, though. If my daughter saw me talking to an empty chair, she'd either have a nervous breakdown or send me off to the funny farm."
The pastor was deeply moved by the story and encouraged the old guy to continue on the journey.Then he prayed with him, and returned to the church.
Two nights later the daughter called to tell the pastor that her daddy had died that afternoon.
"Did he seem to die in peace?" he asked. "Yes,when I left the house around two o'clock, he called me over to his bedside,told me one of his corny jokes, and kissed me on the cheek. When I got back from the store an hour later, I found him dead. But, there was something strange.In fact, beyond strange--kinda weird.Apparently, just before Daddy died, he leaned over and rested his head on a chair beside the bed.
(Excerpt from http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Lake/3888/Prayerintroduction1.html)
The pastor assumed that the old fellow had been informed of his visit. I guess you were expecting me," he said."No, who are you?" "I'm the new associate pastor at your local church," the pastor replied. "When I saw the empty chair, I figured you knew that I was going to show up." "Oh yeah, the chair," said the bedridden man.
"Would you mind closing the door?" Puzzled, the pastor shut the door.
"I've never told anyone this, not even my daughter," said the man.
"But all of my life I have never known how to pray. At church I used to hear the pastor talk about prayer, but it went right over my head. I abandoned any attempt at prayer," the old man continued, "until one day about four years ago my best friend said to me, 'Joe, prayer is just a simple matter of having a conversation with Jesus. Here's what I suggest. Sit down on a chair, place an empty chair in front of you, and in faith see Jesus on the chair. It's not spooky because he promised, 'I'll be with you always.' Then just speak to him and listen in the same way you're doing with me right now."
"So, I tried it and I've liked it so much that I do it a couple of hours every day. I'm careful, though. If my daughter saw me talking to an empty chair, she'd either have a nervous breakdown or send me off to the funny farm."
The pastor was deeply moved by the story and encouraged the old guy to continue on the journey.Then he prayed with him, and returned to the church.
Two nights later the daughter called to tell the pastor that her daddy had died that afternoon.
"Did he seem to die in peace?" he asked. "Yes,when I left the house around two o'clock, he called me over to his bedside,told me one of his corny jokes, and kissed me on the cheek. When I got back from the store an hour later, I found him dead. But, there was something strange.In fact, beyond strange--kinda weird.Apparently, just before Daddy died, he leaned over and rested his head on a chair beside the bed.
(Excerpt from http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Lake/3888/Prayerintroduction1.html)
EMPTY CHAIR
A man's daughter had asked the local pastor to come and pray with her father. When the pastor arrived, he found the man lying in bed with his head propped up on two pillows and an empty chair beside his bed.
The pastor assumed that the old fellow had been informed of his visit. I guess you were expecting me," he said."No, who are you?" "I'm the new associate pastor at your local church," the pastor replied. "When I saw the empty chair, I figured you knew that I was going to show up." "Oh yeah, the chair," said the bedridden man.
"Would you mind closing the door?" Puzzled, the pastor shut the door.
"I've never told anyone this, not even my daughter," said the man.
"But all of my life I have never known how to pray. At church I used to hear the pastor talk about prayer, but it went right over my head. I abandoned any attempt at prayer," the old man continued, "until one day about four years ago my best friend said to me, 'Joe, prayer is just a simple matter of having a conversation with Jesus. Here's what I suggest. Sit down on a chair, place an empty chair in front of you, and in faith see Jesus on the chair. It's not spooky because he promised, 'I'll be with you always.' Then just speak to him and listen in the same way you're doing with me right now."
"So, I tried it and I've liked it so much that I do it a couple of hours every day. I'm careful, though. If my daughter saw me talking to an empty chair, she'd either have a nervous breakdown or send me off to the funny farm."
The pastor was deeply moved by the story and encouraged the old guy to continue on the journey.Then he prayed with him, and returned to the church.
Two nights later the daughter called to tell the pastor that her daddy had died that afternoon.
"Did he seem to die in peace?" he asked. "Yes,when I left the house around two o'clock, he called me over to his bedside,told me one of his corny jokes, and kissed me on the cheek. When I got back from the store an hour later, I found him dead. But, there was something strange.In fact, beyond strange--kinda weird.Apparently, just before Daddy died, he leaned over and rested his head on a chair beside the bed.
The pastor assumed that the old fellow had been informed of his visit. I guess you were expecting me," he said."No, who are you?" "I'm the new associate pastor at your local church," the pastor replied. "When I saw the empty chair, I figured you knew that I was going to show up." "Oh yeah, the chair," said the bedridden man.
"Would you mind closing the door?" Puzzled, the pastor shut the door.
"I've never told anyone this, not even my daughter," said the man.
"But all of my life I have never known how to pray. At church I used to hear the pastor talk about prayer, but it went right over my head. I abandoned any attempt at prayer," the old man continued, "until one day about four years ago my best friend said to me, 'Joe, prayer is just a simple matter of having a conversation with Jesus. Here's what I suggest. Sit down on a chair, place an empty chair in front of you, and in faith see Jesus on the chair. It's not spooky because he promised, 'I'll be with you always.' Then just speak to him and listen in the same way you're doing with me right now."
"So, I tried it and I've liked it so much that I do it a couple of hours every day. I'm careful, though. If my daughter saw me talking to an empty chair, she'd either have a nervous breakdown or send me off to the funny farm."
The pastor was deeply moved by the story and encouraged the old guy to continue on the journey.Then he prayed with him, and returned to the church.
Two nights later the daughter called to tell the pastor that her daddy had died that afternoon.
"Did he seem to die in peace?" he asked. "Yes,when I left the house around two o'clock, he called me over to his bedside,told me one of his corny jokes, and kissed me on the cheek. When I got back from the store an hour later, I found him dead. But, there was something strange.In fact, beyond strange--kinda weird.Apparently, just before Daddy died, he leaned over and rested his head on a chair beside the bed.
February 12, 2008
献上活祭
献上活祭
我心切切渴慕你 主 我要紧紧跟随你
你恩典与慈爱永无止息 你信实直到永远
我王 我的神 因你奇妙圣名 献上我的赞美
耶稣 主耶稣 求用我一生
耶稣 主耶稣 求用我一生
我心深深向你敬拜 我灵渴慕你荣光
我完全相信你宝贵应许 我在你怀中安息
我要向世人歌唱你的恩典 直到我见你面
耶稣 主耶稣 求用我一生
耶稣 主耶稣 求用我一生
My heart longs for You, my Savior, I would follow You, my Lord.
Your kindness and love are vast as the skies, Your faithfulness never dies.
My God and my King, Your great name I sing,
My offering of praise I bring.
Jesus, O Jesus, I gave You my life
Jesus, O Jesus, I gave You my life
My soul contemplates Your glory, I worship in holy awe.
In quietness and in confident trust, I rest in all that You are.
I’ll sing to the world Your glory and grace, Until I behold Your face.
Jesus, O Jesus, I gave You my life.
Jesus, O Jesus, I gave You my life.
以上的歌词是我在1996年浸信会全国青少年营会，第一次唱的歌。当时除了唱中文，还有英文歌词。
那一年，面对了很多的挑战和试探，我才知道我是那么的软弱、不守信用、无用、甚至无耻。
但是很感谢主，祂没有放弃我。因为参加了那一个营会，我知道了有关“真爱，要等待”的信息。而且我知道我已经被免罪了。既然祂为我做了这么多事，我还要为自己保留些什么呢？有什么比上帝更重要？
因此，会众一起在唱这首诗歌的时候，我只有一直流眼泪，对上帝说，“主啊，求求祢不要不用我！求祢用尽我的一生！我很害怕祢不要用我！我求祢用我！”
在此，我要谢谢当年主办这次营会的单位，各位牧师传道、导师、筹委、等等，还有叫我去参加营会的好朋友，amos.谢谢你们！
我心切切渴慕你 主 我要紧紧跟随你
你恩典与慈爱永无止息 你信实直到永远
我王 我的神 因你奇妙圣名 献上我的赞美
耶稣 主耶稣 求用我一生
耶稣 主耶稣 求用我一生
我心深深向你敬拜 我灵渴慕你荣光
我完全相信你宝贵应许 我在你怀中安息
我要向世人歌唱你的恩典 直到我见你面
耶稣 主耶稣 求用我一生
耶稣 主耶稣 求用我一生
My heart longs for You, my Savior, I would follow You, my Lord.
Your kindness and love are vast as the skies, Your faithfulness never dies.
My God and my King, Your great name I sing,
My offering of praise I bring.
Jesus, O Jesus, I gave You my life
Jesus, O Jesus, I gave You my life
My soul contemplates Your glory, I worship in holy awe.
In quietness and in confident trust, I rest in all that You are.
I’ll sing to the world Your glory and grace, Until I behold Your face.
Jesus, O Jesus, I gave You my life.
Jesus, O Jesus, I gave You my life.
以上的歌词是我在1996年浸信会全国青少年营会，第一次唱的歌。当时除了唱中文，还有英文歌词。
那一年，面对了很多的挑战和试探，我才知道我是那么的软弱、不守信用、无用、甚至无耻。
但是很感谢主，祂没有放弃我。因为参加了那一个营会，我知道了有关“真爱，要等待”的信息。而且我知道我已经被免罪了。既然祂为我做了这么多事，我还要为自己保留些什么呢？有什么比上帝更重要？
因此，会众一起在唱这首诗歌的时候，我只有一直流眼泪，对上帝说，“主啊，求求祢不要不用我！求祢用尽我的一生！我很害怕祢不要用我！我求祢用我！”
在此，我要谢谢当年主办这次营会的单位，各位牧师传道、导师、筹委、等等，还有叫我去参加营会的好朋友，amos.谢谢你们！
February 07, 2008
真爱的特质 True Love
真爱的特质：
1.接纳对方的全人
- 完全接纳
- 按照他的本像来接纳他
- 可以Be Yourself
- 容许对方犯错，而且被尊重
- 对他完全满意
- 不要成为他的妈妈，不必特意去改变他
- 让他觉得自己是安全的
2.不只是感觉，也包含了彼此的委身和承诺
- 真爱不需要感觉
- 浓浓的感觉有时却不是爱
- 真爱是违背感觉的
- 一定要经过时间、环境的考验
- 不论感觉如何，我对你的承诺永不改变
3.真爱是舍己（放下自己）
- 不要带隐性笔记簿来为对方打分
- 不是你来我往，不是交易
- 要付百分之百的责任
4.真爱是负责任的
- 对已婚的，这代表拒绝外遇
- 要有坚稳的信任
- 预防外遇的建议：
- 不要与异性谈心
- 不要单独约会
- 不要单独出差或旅行
- 对未婚的，当保守自己身心灵的纯洁
- 避免引诱、逃避试探
5.真爱会保护对方
- 不说伤害对方的话
- 不公开羞辱对方
6.真爱深觉彼此相属
- 归心似箭
- 彼此是一体的
7.真爱会不断成长
- 稳妥
（摘自冯志梅的卡带）
1.接纳对方的全人
- 完全接纳
- 按照他的本像来接纳他
- 可以Be Yourself
- 容许对方犯错，而且被尊重
- 对他完全满意
- 不要成为他的妈妈，不必特意去改变他
- 让他觉得自己是安全的
2.不只是感觉，也包含了彼此的委身和承诺
- 真爱不需要感觉
- 浓浓的感觉有时却不是爱
- 真爱是违背感觉的
- 一定要经过时间、环境的考验
- 不论感觉如何，我对你的承诺永不改变
3.真爱是舍己（放下自己）
- 不要带隐性笔记簿来为对方打分
- 不是你来我往，不是交易
- 要付百分之百的责任
4.真爱是负责任的
- 对已婚的，这代表拒绝外遇
- 要有坚稳的信任
- 预防外遇的建议：
- 不要与异性谈心
- 不要单独约会
- 不要单独出差或旅行
- 对未婚的，当保守自己身心灵的纯洁
- 避免引诱、逃避试探
5.真爱会保护对方
- 不说伤害对方的话
- 不公开羞辱对方
6.真爱深觉彼此相属
- 归心似箭
- 彼此是一体的
7.真爱会不断成长
- 稳妥
（摘自冯志梅的卡带）
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