February 04, 2007

十个房子

从前,有一个人,拥有一栋十个房间的房子。有一日,有一个人轻轻敲门:咯咯,咯咯..D...他开门,惊讶地发现原来是主耶稣。耶稣对他说:我敲门想要进 来,你要让我进来吗?年轻人十分高兴,说:欢迎你主,我要把最好的房间给你住,请进,请进。耶稣是个绅士,他说:谢谢你。年轻人说:这栋屋子最好的房间在 楼上,里面有最好的家具,是最大,最好的房间。于是他走到楼上说:主耶稣,这是你的房间。耶稣是个绅士,他说:谢谢你。
第二天早上,有人急急地敲门:咯咯咯咯咯咯.......年轻人心想谁敲门敲得这么急......他打开门,看看是谁......是魔鬼......年轻 人立刻叱喝:走开魔鬼!魔鬼说:不!我已经进来了!年轻人说:我不要你!魔鬼说:我已经进来了!于是两人便开始扭打成一团。魔鬼整天都在年轻人心中注入污 秽的试探,情况危急......到了晚上,年轻人才勉强把魔鬼推出去,将门锁上。他筋疲力尽。然后,他说:等一下,耶稣住在我家,他为什么不帮助我,他难 道没有听见我在喊叫,需要帮忙吗?他为什么不来帮助我?于是,他走到楼上,说:我得问耶稣为什么不帮助我,我给他最好的房间。他走上去,对耶稣说:主耶稣 啊,难道你没听见魔鬼整天在烦我吗?你为什么不帮我?耶稣说:孩子,在这十个房间中,你住了九间,我只住了一间。年轻人好像被敲了一下,说:噢,主啊,我 知道我犯了错误,我们一半一半好了,你住楼上,我住楼下吧。耶稣是个绅士,他说:谢谢你。
到了第二天早上,你猜有什么事发生......又有人急急地敲门了:咯咯咯咯咯咯.......年轻人说:糟了!魔鬼又来了!我不想开门......可 是,万一是别人呢?我怎么知道不是别人呢?我只要开了一小缝,从里面偷看一下......是谁?又是魔鬼......他赶快想要关门,但魔鬼的脚很瘦,牠 用脚挡住门缝,于是他们又扭打了一整天,情况实在激烈......到了晚上,年轻人才勉强把魔鬼推出去,将门锁上。他筋疲力尽。我一定要问问祂。他走到楼 上说:主耶稣啊,魔鬼又来找我了!你为什么不帮我?我给你五个房间。耶稣说:孩子,我们换个做法好了,你把十个房间都给我,然后你来住我家,而不是我来住 你家。把十个房间都给我,你来住。年轻人跪了下来,他把前门的锁匙拿出来,他说:主耶稣,我现在把整栋房子交给你,从今天起我要住在你家,这样做好吗?可 是......
到了第二天早上,太阳出来之前,有人用力敲前门:咯咯咯咯咯咯.......年轻人还在睡觉,他吓得跳下床,哭丧着脸,说:魔鬼又来了......当他哭 时,突然不敢相信自己的耳朵,他听见房子里有脚步声:踏..踏..踏..他说:我晓得了!我不再是房子的主人,拥有房子的主人必须去开门。他看见耶稣走下 楼梯,以万王之王、万主之主的姿态;耶稣不只开一个小缝而已,他把门大大的打开;年轻人躲在耶稣后面,他想看会发生什么事。当魔鬼看见是耶稣站在门口,牠 就恭敬屈膝。魔鬼说:对不起,我敲错门了!

February 03, 2007

恭喜发福

taken from http://www.tlyeo.com/gb/

written by 杨钟禄牧师

新春佳节期间,在华人社会里最,最流行的一句恭贺的话就是:恭喜发财!大家都用这句话作为互相祝福!我祝你发大财,你也祝我发大财,皆大欢喜!对许多人来说,这当然是一句好话;但对基督徒来说,这是不合圣经教训的话。因为恭喜发财是鼓励人贪心!

人用正当的途径、把握机会去赚取财富、拥有财富,一点都没错。但那不叫发财,那叫生财有道,又叫君子好财,取之有道,都是有道、合道的事。发财是指不须按 正轨而得之财,所以也叫横财!祝贺恭喜发财的心态就是认为人生最好的事就是可以不劳而获!最理想的人生就是不用工作,又可享受财富;一个国家的人民若个个 都如此,这个国家社会就前途堪哀了!

财富不是罪恶,但贪财、想发财却是可怕的罪,被圣经称为万恶之根!华人最爱听的一个祝福就是心想事成,横财就手,那是什么心?想发财之心、贪财之心!圣经 说:但那些想要发财的人、就陷在迷惑、落在网罗、和许多无知有害的私欲里、叫人沉在败坏和灭亡中。贪财是万恶之根.有人贪恋钱财、就被引诱离了真道、用许 多愁苦把自己刺透了。 (提前6:9,10)

世上大半的罪恶都是与金钱有关的。偷、抢、劫是少数人做的事,但因想发财而暗中用各样方法与手段去做各样损人利己的事,却是无数人天天都在做的事。其实两 者都是亲戚,因都是同根生贪财之根 !我们若明白这些道理,就不会喜欢用恭喜发财去激发人们的贪财之心了!

圣经没说财富是罪,相反的,财富也是神给人的一种赐福。如亚伯拉罕、约伯、所罗门都获得神赐给他们大财富。但财富也隐藏著大危机,就是叫人忘记神。耶稣在 讲道中提过的两个财主都是因财富太多而忘记与神关系的人:下阴间的财主(路16:19)、盖大仓库的财主(路12:16)。甚至教会也会因富足而忘记神: 发财教会老底嘉(启3:17)

其实,神愿我们都做富足人!主耶稣说:我来要叫人得生命,并且得的丰盛富足(约10:10)。真正的富,是在神面前富,不是在人面前富。雅各书2:5显明 神要我们都成为富足人,信心富足、灵命富足!那才是在神面前的富足人!人前富,是短暂之富;神前富,才是永远的福。让我们新年的祈求是:

求在神面前富足,不要只求为自己积财(路12:21),而要为自己积财在天(太6:19,20)
求在信心上富足,过于世上的财富;在世上是穷是富不是最重要,但在神的国度里,让我们都追求做富足人(雅2:5)
恭喜发财不如恭喜发福!不是身体发福得胖胖的,而是生命发福,得神所赐的永生,享受丰盛的人生。

在这新一年的开始,让我们皆以父的事为念,以爱神、事奉神为优先;将你的忧虑都卸给神,神不但会顾念你,并要赐福你。让我们谨记主的话:先求神的国与神的义,神会把你所需用的都加给你(太6:33)。

February 02, 2007

Proverbs 2 How to be wise?

箴言Proverbs 2: 智慧之果 The Benefits of Wisdom

2:1 年輕人哪,要學習我的教導,不可忘記我給你的指示。
My child,* listen to what I say, and treasure my commands.

2:2 要聽明智的訓言,明白它的意義。

Tune your ears to wisdom, and concentrate on understanding.

2:3 是的,要追求知識;要尋求領悟。
Cry out for insight, and ask for understanding.

2:4 要像尋求銀子一樣熱心,像搜索寶藏一樣認真。
Search for them as you would for silver; seek them like hidden treasures.

2:5 這樣,你就會領悟甚麼是敬畏上主,明白甚麼是認識上帝。
T
hen you will understand what it means to fear the LORD, and you will gain knowledge of God.

"Hey! you want more money? God says, search insight and understanding like you want more money! Then you will know how to fear the Lord! But where is our focus? Money? or KNOWLEDGE of God?"

2:6 因為,賜智慧的是上主,知識和悟性都是從他來的。
For the LORD grants wisdom! From his mouth come knowledge and understanding.

2:7 他幫助正直的人,保護誠實的人。
He grants a treasure of common sense to the honest. He is a shield to those who walk with integrity.

2:8 他幫助待人公道的人,衛護對他忠誠的人。
He guards the paths of the just and protects those who are faithful to him.

2:9 你若聽從我,就會知道甚麼是誠實、公平、正直,知道甚麼是你們應當做的。
Then you will understand what is right, just, and fair, and you will find the right way to go.

2:10 你會成為明智的人,而知識會使你歡愉。
F
or wisdom will enter your heart, and knowledge will fill you with joy.

2:11 你的遠見要衛護你,悟性要保護你,

Wise choices will watch over you. Understanding will keep you safe.

"How to be safe? know His way! Know what He says! YOU hv to find the right way!"

2:12 使你不至於做錯了事,要保守你,使你遠離那些以口舌惹是生非的人,
Wisdom will save you from evil people, from those whose words are twisted.


2:13 遠避那些背棄正道、生活在黑暗中、
These men turn from the right way to walk down dark paths.

2:14 喜歡作惡、以邪惡為樂、
They take pleasure in doing wrong, and they enjoy the twisted ways of evil.

2:15 走彎曲道路、不可信賴的人。
Their actions are crooked, and their ways are wrong.

2:16 智慧使你能夠抗拒想用甜言蜜語勾引你的女人。
Wisdom will save you from the immoral woman, from the seductive words of the promiscuous woman.

2:17 這女人對自己的丈夫不貞,忘記了自己神聖的誓約。

She has abandoned her husband and ignores the covenant she made before God.

2:18 你如果上她的家,無異走上死路;她的路導向陰間。 Entering her house leads to death; it is the road to the grave.*

2:19 凡去探望她的人沒有一個回來,沒有回到生路上來的人。

The man who visits her is doomed. He will never reach the paths of life.

2:20
所以,你要以好人為榜樣,過正直的生活。

Follow the steps of good men instead, and stay on the paths of the righteous.

"Find a model to Follow! and don't forget, the best model is JESUS CHRIST!"

2:21 正直忠誠的人得以定居在這片土地上;

For only the godly will live in the land, and those with integrity will remain in it.

2:22
但是上帝要從這地上剷除作惡的人,像拔草一樣把罪人除滅。

But the wicked will be removed from the land, and the treacherous will be uprooted.

February 01, 2007

Bkt Cahaya: 12 Dummies

phew.. finally got back from bkt cahaya and summit square. 12 of us went for cycling.
the 'not so good' thing we discover is abt the environment in bkt cahaya. i've not been there for abt 9 yrs, but wat i felt after this trip is, "why the part is not taken good care of?" "isn't it a waste?"
the 'good' thing is the renting of the bike is not expensive. haha..
but the 'best' thing i found is.. the love and care among these people who went for the trip. it's great to see that when somebody seems to be not capable, but still can see none of us complain, but helping and encouraging each other.
dear brothers and sisters.. did u feel that? hope we can continue to walk side by side, learning from each other, and be salt and light to the world! let the world see the differences in our life!

January 21, 2007

Proverbs 20

Proverbs 20

3 Avoiding a fight is a mark of honor; only fools insist on quarreling.
reflection: am i a fool?
9 Who can say, "I have cleansed my heart; I am pure and free from sin"?
reflection: r u pure in the eyes of the Lord?
10 The LORD despises double standards of every kind.
reflection: this sounds the same in Matthew 1 "Stop judging others, and you will not be judged. 2 For others will treat you as you treat them. F47 Whatever measure you use in judging others, it will be used to measure how you are judged. 3 And why worry about a speck in your friend's eye F48 when you have a log in your own? 4 How can you think of saying, 'Let me help you get rid of that speck in your eye,' when you can't see past the log in your own eye? 5 Hypocrite! First get rid of the log from your own eye; then perhaps you will see well enough to deal with the speck in your friend's eye.
do we see others' speck n forgotten the log in our eyes? this is double standard!!!
19 A gossip tells secrets, so don't hang around with someone who talks too much.
reflection: when people are talking among themselves, are we the one who goes near and put our ears near the people who are talking, or are we fleeing frm such people who gossips? if they are not gossping, then why we want to know so much thing from other people? if we can't help the situation, what's the benefit of knowing other people's personal secret?

January 09, 2007

毛巾

这几天一直有时间在家休息,做了很多家务。清洗了睡房、抹了鞋架的尘、扫了客房、洗了被单、连抹脚布也洗了。这几天,我发现自己很有效率。

不但打扫屋子,还煮饭烧菜。哇,真了不起!我老公也这么说。

突然,“啊!” 我老公惊讶的喊了一声。“我的毛巾啊!婉儿呀!”然后我老公好像小孩子一样趴倒在床上,撒娇。说:“我不能接受我的毛巾当抹脚布!”

哈,原来是这样。我觉得他很可爱。因为长期用了这毛巾,对毛巾依依不舍。觉得自己不能让这毛巾被这样的对待。

结果,他把毛巾从地上拿回上来。

我老公很长情哦!

December 19, 2006

Distance between a boy and a girl

I'm thinking about this issue "distance between a boy and a girl" in these few days.

How should a guy and a lady keep the right distance so that no misunderstandings occurs between the two person, as well as the outsiders who are watching?

Do you have any idea about this? Please feel free to drop a sentence or two and share with me your insights.